Thursday, January 28, 2010

Every Day Should Be This Average


Today. An average day. I got up. Drank tea. Worked on my message. Went to the office. Called a hurting family. Ate lunch. Talked to Martin about stuff. Made some decisions. Went fishing. Caught (only) the sunset.

But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness. Hebrews 3:13

The most exceptional part of my average day was when a close friend called to say that he just accepted an executive position in a large corporation. I still remember when his wife called to let me know that he just got laid off. That evening, Janet and I went to their house to listen to their anxieties and to promise them that they will never go hungry and will always have a place to stay. After some prayer with the family, we drove home more inspired and encouraged. He was "rock-solid". For 8 months, without a job, he was focused on Jesus...always trusting in God's provision. I'm glad he's my friend.

QUESTION: Who encouraged you Today? Who can you encourage Today?

Friday, January 15, 2010

Response To The Earthquake In Haiti

And the word of the LORD came again to Zechariah: "This is what the LORD Almighty says: 'Administer true justice; show mercy and compassion to one another. Do not oppress the widow or the fatherless, the alien or the poor. In your hearts do not think evil of each other.'
Zechariah 7:8-10


It's been hard to get a grip on how God is leading me and Hope Chapel Gateway in a compassionate response to the earthquake in Haiti. I've been monitoring blogs, reading Internet news articles, following tweets, and watching TV news. To be honest, at times, I've also been selfishly avoiding all of the above because of the terrible and painful reality in Haiti. But I know that people are looking for the clear call of leadership during this emotional and confusing global disaster.

I'm thankful that today I had the opportunity to be a part of a conference call with Max Lucado of Oak Hills Church, Bill Hybels of Willow Creek Community Church, and Rich Stearns of World Vision International. The subject of the conference call was about the United States churches response to the earthquake in Haiti.

This is what I learned in the conference call...

A Process Response In A Large Scale Disaster

1st Phase: Emergency Response (72 hours - 5 days)
Trained experts and professionals respond to the disaster site.

2nd Phase: Transitional Response (First two weeks)
The United Nations and Non- Government Organizations initiate social transition and community stabilization - food, water, health care, sanitation are restored.

3rd Phase: Recovery Response (2+ years)
Under the leadership of organizations like World Vision International, Child Hope, and Compassion International, people respond to rebuild people and communities. Ministries reach out to people with God's love. Housing, infrastructure, schools, hospitals, churches, and businesses are rebuilt.

Everyone wants to do something now. For the majority of us, the most good you can do now is: Pray and Give. I encourage you to partner with my friends at World Vision International, NewSong Church and New Hope South Bay in their "Love Haiti" campaign. In the "Love Haiti" campaign, each dollar (up to $10,000) will be matched by generous businesses.

I'll be part of a group of Pastors in the South Bay that will be prayerfully planning on sending people for the 3rd Phase, Recovery Response, in the next few months.

In the meantime, pray and give.

QUESTION: What are your thoughts and feelings... and/or How have you responded to the Earthquake disaster in Haiti?

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

"A Friend Who Is Closer Than A Brother" - A Story


"One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Proverbs 18:24



As only God could predestine ...Five kids grew up on the same street on Avenue "F" in Redondo Beach. They all came from someplace else...

"Bo" from the frigid hills of North Dakota.
"Ahmed" from the Islamic urban sprawl of Dearborn, Michigan.
"Don" from misty Portland, Oregon.
"Filly" from the flatlands of East Texas
"Pete" from the dry and dusty winds of Ridgecrest, CA.

Their families all moved to Redondo at the same time because their Dad's were sought-after, experienced, structural engineers at Raytheon Corporation. The company was moving their major emphasis in El Segundo to satellite technology and they needed Senior Managers to help with the transition. Part of the relocation package was the rent-to-own of their 5 homes on the "Avenues". And dreams of sunny, warm weather and the fresh smell of salty air wooed them from all over the country.

In the month of July, five moving trucks showed up on Avenue "F", unloading each young family's furniture and life belongings. Within days the five boys: Bo, Ahmed, Don, Filly and Pete were riding bikes and Razors, throwing baseballs and shooting baskets. The moms were secretly hoping to keep the video games packed in moving boxes as the boys were enjoying the incredible sunny and warm weather!

Who would have known that the first few weeks of newfound friendship would be the foundation of a lifetime bond of brotherhood?


The innocent Elementary school years matriculated into awkward and odorous Middle School years. All five boys stayed close, watching out, protecting and defending one another, and sharing with one another the enigmatic secrets that only 14 year old boys have.

On an unusually warm winter Saturday the boys were combing the beach for stuff that the high surf tossed on the sand. Ahmed, the most adventurous of the five, dared the others to follow him and jumped into the water... "dolphining" the shore break to make it past the breakers. He didn't take into account what the high surf created the night before and on his third dive into the murky shore break, his head was stopped short by a underwater pile of sand.

Ahmed thought how strangely quiet it was floating face-down, lifeless in the shallow water. He felt no pain...he didn't "feel" anything. It was dreamy, peaceful and silent...until he was violently dragged to the sand berm by his four friends who were screaming for the lifeguards and asking if he was okay!

What followed were: sterile hospital rooms, stainless steel halos screwed into his skull, MRI's, multiple surgeries, excruciating physical therapy, experimental treatments, chin-controlled electric wheel chairs...and four friends who would hang out with him everyday.

They all graduated from Middle School together, the four friends joyfully pushing Ahmed in his manual wheelchair up to the stage to receive his promotion certificate.

The next year, at Redondo Union High School, Ahmed let go of his dreams to swim and play water polo for the Seahawks. And he turned to academics and the debate team. His friends wildly cheered as they watched Ahmed in the forensics competitions, he was especially intense (almost angry) in philosophical arguments about life.

In the spring of their senior year...when every 18 year-old begins to think seriously about life, the future, and spiritual things...four of the five friends found Jesus together at an Easter Celebration event that they were invited to by a neighbor. It was at this time that they began to clearly see the anger, bitterness and depression Ahmed was developing. After the Easter event Ahmed said, "Why do I need to have my sins forgiven? I didn't do anything wrong! God should be asking me for forgiveness. Look at what He did to me!"

And his friends couldn't...wouldn't...argue with him.




Throughout High School, Bo, Don, Filly, Pete, and Ahmed were inseparable. They did everything together; Lunch, Football games, Studying, Driving lessons. Their senior year they took the senior trip together and forgot about prom dates to go together and rent a special limo with a wheelchair lift gate.

The tragedy Ahmed experienced seemed to shape the future of his friends...

Don studied hard to get into the Premed programs in at UCLA (hoping to specialize in orthopedics and neurosurgery).
Filly was good at building things. He wanted to get his Contractors License and retrofit homes for the elderly and disabled. After all, He converted Ahmed's house by widening doorways, building ramps and installing a lift in his van so that Ahmed could go where ever the friends went.
Pete wanted to major in Political Science - hoping to one day be a Congressman so that he could be an advocate in legislation for the physically disabled.
Bo was a great swimmer and he wanted to be a lifeguard (at the beach, he was always keeping an eye out for hidden sand bars).

But none of their aspirations could take away the reality that their friend Ahmed would never walk again.



"One day as he (Jesus) was teaching, Pharisees and teachers of the law, who had come from every village of Galilee and from Judea and Jerusalem, were sitting there. And the power of the Lord was present for him to heal the sick."
Luke 5:17

The summer after graduation, Bo, Don, Filly and Pete joined a Small Group at a local church. Their daily prayer was that Ahmed would find forgiveness and life in Jesus like they did. One night, at Growth Group, they read a scripture and discussed how God could heal the sick. And like the power being restored after a black out in the middle of the night...they all had an idea that was birthed out of the desire to see Ahmed join them in their spiritual journeys...without hesitation, they left the Growth Group...

They drove to Ahmed's house and strapped him into Filly's van and drove to where the healer was...



"Some men came carrying a paralytic on a mat and tried to take him into the house to lay him before Jesus. When they could not find a way to do this because of the crowd..."
Luke 5:18-19a

Bo said, "Dang it! Everything was going great. Now what do we do?" Don was resigned, "Even if we got in, will He have enough time to see us?" But the friends were desperate. Peter chimed in, "If the Bible says that He can heal, we need to find a way." Filly walked around the perimeter of the house scoping out the best way to get in and get His attention. Then, after some thought, he said, "I've got an idea!"

Ahmed stubbornly protested, but everything happened so quickly. Filly started up the generator, got some power tools out, rigged up some lines and...



"When they could not find a way to do this because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and lowered him on his mat through the tiles into the middle of the crowd, right in front of Jesus."
Luke 5:19

This is what they came for. Getting Ahmed in and getting the healer's attention. By going in the crowded house through the roof, they got everyone's attention!



"When Jesus saw their faith, he said, 'Friend, your sins are forgiven.'"
Luke 5:20a


There was silence for at least 30 seconds...not a word was spoken...

The four looked at each other stunned...their prayer was answered...Ahmed found Jesus and his sins were forgiven!

But, there was one other thing hanging out there...

All five looked at each other and they knew exactly what the other was thinking, but no one wanted to say anything out loud... "Is it too much to ask for physical healing too?"

Then, like a director of a film announcing, "Action!" on a movie set... loud arguing and shouting broke out in the crowded house from people they didn't even know...


"I THOUGHT YOU WERE HERE TO HEAL THE SICK!"
"YEAH, THAT'S WHAT WE CAME TO SEE!"
"YOU'RE A FRAUD!"
"FORGIVENESS? RIGHT! I CAN'T SEE FORGIVENESS OF SINS!"

To stop the arguing some stiff, academics got everyone's attention...


"The Pharisees and the teachers of the law began thinking to themselves, "Who is this fellow who speaks blasphemy? Who can forgive sins but God alone?" Jesus knew what they were thinking and asked, "Why are you thinking these things in your hearts? Which is easier: to say, 'Your sins are forgiven,' or to say, 'Get up and walk'? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins...."
Luke 5:21-24a

And not because He caved-in to the legalism of the academics, or to the strange, "sideshow" desires of the crowd, but because He love and had compassion for Ahmed...


"He said to the paralyzed man, "I tell you, get up, take your mat and go home." Immediately he stood up in front of them, took what he had been lying on and went home praising God. Everyone was amazed and gave praise to God. They
were filled with awe and said, "We have seen remarkable things today."
Luke 5:24b-26

QUESTION: What thoughts and feelings does this story bring up in your heart and mind?

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Dean's Healthy Loco Moco


Jaimie requested this recipe for "Dean's Healthy LocoMoco"!

The LocoMoco is Hawaiian food in it's purest form...hearty, tasty, inexpensive and (unfortunately) unhealthy. My version is a healthy re-creation of the island favorite!

1 lb. Ground Whitemeat Turkey
1 medium Onion sliced
4 Tablespoons healthy butter substitute
4 Tablespoons flour
4 Cups Chicken broth
2 Tablespoons Olive Oil
Eggs
Steamed Brown Rice

Marinade Ingredients:
1/4 Cup Sugar
1/4 Cup Sake or Sherry
1/4 Cup Low Sodium Soy Sauce
2 cloves crushed Garlic
1 teaspoon grated fresh Ginger
1 piece of (stale) bread in small pieces
1 egg
  • For the marinade, mix everything together in a small bowl.
  • Put the turkey in a larger bowl and pour the marinade over the turkey and mix (with your hands) well. Let the mixture stand while you prepare the other ingredients.
  • In a small saucepan, melt the butter on low heat and slowly stir in the flour to make a golden brown roux. Set aside.
  • Form the turkey mixture into hamburger sized patties and fry to a golden brown on both sides in a "Pam" coated non-stick frying pan. Remove the patties to a plate.
  • Pour the Olive Oil in the same frying pan and saute the sliced onions for 3-4 minutes.
  • Remove the onions to the same plate as the turkey patties.
  • Pour the chicken broth into the same pan and heat to boiling. Reduce the heat to medium and add the roux to thicken the gravy. Use a whisk to stir in the roux.
  • After the gravy thickens, add the turkey patties and onions and cook on medium heat for 10 minutes.
  • In another pan, fry eggs (scrambled, easy over or sunny-side up).
Assemble Dean's Healthy LocoMoco: a bed of steamed rice, turkey patty, egg, onions and gravy. Enjoy!

Serves 6 (or 3 hungry Islanders!)

Question: What's is the best "healthy re-creation" of a unhealthy favorite dish you ever had?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

“Beer and Blondes”

A few months ago a friend and I were checking-in with each other on a drive time cell phone (hands free, of course) conversation. "How's the family", he asked. As I searched my mind for new family news I told him that in January my son, Matt, will be going to Australia with his Azusa Pacific University friends to study abroad. His quick reply was simply, "Beer and Blondes"! I was (deer-caught-in-the-headlights) stunned by his abrupt, guy-talk quip. I passed if off with a hearty chuckle and my own prideful, guy-talk banter, "That's my boy!" We talked for a few minutes more about family, but I don't remember much of what was said because my mind was still in a fog..."Beer and Blondes"?
From a college student's perspective, the idea of being far away from home, in a foreign country known (by some) for it's "Beer and Blondes" sounds too good to be true! On the other hand these are terrifying thoughts for a recovering helicopter parent. I have to keep reminding myself that my well-intentioned friend said, "Beer and Blondes" NOT "Drunkenness and Fornication".

A few hours before Matt boarded the plane, we had one of our many man-to-man talks. With a quirky grin, Matt said that he expected the man-to-man. It wasn't my best lecture...er...talk with him, but I know I could entitle it "The Freedom and Dangers of Beers and Blondes". It sounds like a great Youth Ministry sermon title! (BTW: The legal drinking age in Australia is 18.) We talked about what I call "dangerous freedoms": the freedoms we have as Christ followers and the responsibilities we have in our freedoms.

If the Son sets you free, you are truly free.
John 8:36

So let's stop condemning each other. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall. For the Kingdom of God is not a matter of what we eat or drink, but living a life of goodness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
Romans 14:13; 17


All of this to say that I'll miss Matt, a lot. To be honest, today I'm feeling a little sad that I won't be seeing him for 4 months. He's one of my best friends. But the next 17 weeks will be perfect for me to give extra attention to my wife, my daughter, and to cultivating my friendships with others.

So, Bon Voyage Matt! Have a great adventure "Down Under"! Like I always tell him...Mark 1:11. You can follow Matt's study abroad blog at http://apuinaus.com/

Question: Tell me, what is one of your "dangerous freedoms" (the freedoms we have as Christ followers and the responsibilities we have in our freedoms)?

Read Jason Boyett's provocative article in 2009 Dec/Jan Relevant Magazine, "So, Is Drinking Okay?"

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Let's Take A Walk!

Amos 3:3
"Do two walk together unless they agree to do so?"


"Walking together" has a much fuller meaning than just reaching a destination. It could mean, "I've got something to tell you." Or "We really need to talk!" Or "Let's go... (someplace) together." The high values of togetherness-walkers are: respect, harmony, and mutuality.
In my journeys, I find that I rarely want to go somewhere alone (it's the dilemma of the extrovert!).
That's what this blog is all about: traveling through life and having honest conversations about stuff that really matters.
Along the way...we'll get to know each other, stop to see the sights, enjoy some good food, make new friends, experience different cultures, and have some gut-busting laughs!

So..."Wanna go for a walk?"